The Reading Today
• Source Material: Mere Christianity
My Reflection
Today’s reading continues Lewis’s exploration of chastity, and once again, I find myself grappling with his vocabulary. The very word chastity carries heavy historical baggage for me—evoking notions of patriarchal control and moral policing rather than genuine, loving care.
Lewis writes frankly about the difficulty of self-restraint, blaming our internal impulses and modern cultural conditioning:
"Our warped natures, the devils who tempt us, and all the contemporary propaganda for lust, combine to make us feel that the desires we are resisting are so 'natural', so 'healthy', and so reasonable, that it is almost perverse and abnormal to resist t hem... The lie consists in the suggestion that any sexual act to which you are tempted at the moment is also healthy and normal."
Lewis’s phrase "our warped natures" is deeply jarring. The traditional theological premise that human beings are innately corrupted from birth and burdened with guilt is, to my mind, one of the most oppressive aspects of religious dogma. When I think of beloved people who have shaped my life—such as my late stepmother—the suggestion that they, or any of us, are fundamentally "warped" beings in need of constant self-chastisement is something I reject.
Where Lewis remains undeniably perceptive, however, is in his critique of commercialized culture. Even in the 1940s, he recognized that society weaponizes the naturalness of desire to sell indulgence. Today, the old marketing adage "sex sells" dominates every screen and billboard. Media constantly equates instant gratification with vitality, freedom, and emotional health, while ignoring the real-world wreckage of unbridled impulsiveness—deceit, broken trust, and emotional estrangement.
While I disagree with the theological view of human nature as inherently defective, Lewis makes a compelling secular point: unchecked indulgence is not synonymous with freedom, and true emotional well-being requires discernment, honesty, and self-respect.
Why This Matters
We do not need to accept the premise of innate human brokenness to recognize that commercial culture manipulates our primal desires. Unchecked indulgence is not the same as healthy freedom; true fulfilment requires boundaries rooted in mutual respect, care, and conscious choice.
My Action for Today
Today, I will view commercial advertising and social media feeds with critical detachment, refusing to let consumerist narratives define what constitutes healthy freedom, intimacy, or self-worth.
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